What to Say (and Not Say) After a Tragic Car Accident Loss

Some Words Bring Comfort, While Others Create Distance

In our work with families grieving sudden loss, we’ve noticed how deeply certain words land. A simple “I’m here” communicates a desire to listen. But well-meant phrases like “everything happens for a reason” communicates a desire to give advice, which is not what we are about. We want to be lawyers who are different, so we lean into the power of simply listening.

Every Family Reacts Differently. We’ve Learned There Is No Right Way

We’ve sat with parents who want to talk through every detail and others who can’t say their child’s name out loud. Some need to vent anger. Some need quiet. Over the years, we’ve learned that what’s helpful in one moment may not be in another—and that listening without judgment is everything.

"Let Me Know If You Need Anything” Isn’t Always Enough

We’ve heard many clients say this phrase didn’t help—not because it was wrong, but because they had no idea what they needed. The families we serve are often too overwhelmed to respond. We’ve seen that specific offers—like “Can I bring you Starbucks when you come in for our consultation?”—tend to land better.

Bottom Line: Your Presence Matters More Than Your Words

We’ve learned that you don’t need to say the perfect thing. Just be there. Listen. Look for ways to provide support.

The best way we know how to support our grieving clients comes from our knowledge of the law, and how to bring them the justice and compensation they deserve. If you know someone who is grieving, it might be time to have a conversation about their legal options. Give it time, and keep us in mind.

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This blog post is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Every case is unique. To get legal guidance tailored to your situation, please contact our office directly.